Because females don't possess the muscular strength to oppose men?
Whatever, call ME weirdo, but I'd never hurt a girl. Boys are a different story, though... Besides, I don't think a woman would ever physically hurt you out of the blue, whereas a boy would.
Truth to be told, you are correct; bullies are bullies be them males or females. As I've stated before, I've been through this myself and I came through without picking a fight... Go figure.
(30-01-2012 11:29 PM)herooftime Wrote: [ -> ]Because females don't possess the muscular strength to oppose men?
Whatever, call ME weirdo, but I'd never hurt a girl. Boys are a different story, though... Besides, I don't think a woman would ever physically hurt you out of the blue, whereas a boy would.
Truth to be told, you are correct; bullies are bullies be them males or females. As I've stated before, I've been through this myself and I came through without picking a fight... Go figure.
No such thing
It depends on the person's charachter , not their gender
anyway , you are probably right , tbh i am abnormally weak and small in size so..yeah i'm probably an exeption....don't listen to me when it comes to things like this
C' mon, we're just having a dialogue. You may be right and I may be wrong. Or maybe the opposite. Who knows?
(31-01-2012 12:02 AM)herooftime Wrote: [ -> ]C' mon, we're just having a dialogue. You may be right and I may be wrong. Or maybe the opposite. Who knows?
That's what we're trying to find out
Sigh, I can't believe everyone keeps telling me to use force and violence. She may be violent, but when I descend down that path I am no better than her.
(30-01-2012 11:59 PM)Kingnothing412 Wrote: [ -> ]It depends on the person's charachter , not their gender
I have to agree with KN412 here almost completely. The behavior of someone defines whether or not he deserves to be hit, not the gender. I would never use violence against anyone if he didn't deserve but if I had to, gender wouldn't concern me at all.
I believe, it's what the others will think or say about someone that stops him from hitting a girl. Even if she deserves. This is why I don't let others' opinions affect my behavior.
(30-01-2012 11:29 PM)herooftime Wrote: [ -> ]As I've stated before, I've been through this myself and I came through without picking a fight... Go figure.
About the same here, but, I think sometimes (or many times?) violnce really is a good solution if it's used right. Though I don't use it myself.
(31-01-2012 12:23 AM)Giratina88 Wrote: [ -> ]Sigh, I can't believe everyone keeps telling me to use force and violence. She may be violent, but when I descend down that path I am no better than her.
Really, myself i can't say anything without completely understanding the situation. Since I don't know exactly what's going on, i can't give you proper advice. Anyway, you don't have to use force if you don't feel like it. And better don't get in trouble just because we gave the wrong advice.
Ignorance is the key to bullying such as this.She will hopefully get bored after a while and will stop annoying you.If this doesn't work report the incident to some more sensible teachers than your teacher.If this doesn't work either you can give her the finger(although it's not advisable,especially on girls)...
(31-01-2012 04:32 PM)christos21 Wrote: [ -> ]Ignorance is the key to bullying such as this.She will hopefully get bored after a while and will stop annoying you.If this doesn't work report the incident to some more sensible teachers than your teacher.If this doesn't work either you can give her the finger...
This is exactly my opinion. Violence is for sure not a solution and I have to agree with HoT about hitting girls.
First of all, if he punched her, he would probably have problems with the teachers. And of course, no one certainly says that she would stop bullying him. She could even be much more aggresive. As I see it, she must have a problem and the only way she finds to express it is through bullying. As christos21 said, giratina88 should ignore her. If she insists on bullying him, he must talk with another teacher, his principal and/or his parents.
But as I said violence would only give him more trouble. And of course, you can't calmly beat up someone
He must restrain his anger and stay calm, and just ignore her. Imo, that's the best way to solve his problem.
(03-02-2012 06:30 PM)pekinoua Wrote: [ -> ] (31-01-2012 04:32 PM)christos21 Wrote: [ -> ]Ignorance is the key to bullying such as this.She will hopefully get bored after a while and will stop annoying you.If this doesn't work report the incident to some more sensible teachers than your teacher.If this doesn't work either you can give her the finger...
This is exactly my opinion. Violence is for sure not a solution and I have to agree with HoT about hitting girls.
First of all, if he punched her, he would probably have problems with the teachers. And of course, no one certainly says that she would stop bullying him. She could even be much more aggresive. As I see it, she must have a problem and the only way she finds to express it is through bullying. As christos21 said, giratina88 should ignore her. If she insists on bullying him, he must talk with another teacher, his principal and/or his parents.
But as I said violence would only give him more trouble. And of course, you can't calmly beat up someone He must restrain his anger and stay calm, and just ignore her. Imo, that's the best way to solve his problem.
Well , Guess what? 
It does not work 
(i know about things like this , i've been in this situasion billions of times)
Not if he uses it correctly and at the right time.(and does not overdo it)
Oh yes you can.
Annyway , ignoring her won't help. You could try , but im 70% sure she will just carry on normaly. As i said earlier , telling the teachers would be the best option , keep telling the again and again , tell your parrents about it , and if none of those work , beat her up. And try to stay controlled.
(31-01-2012 12:23 AM)Giratina88 Wrote: [ -> ]Sigh, I can't believe everyone keeps telling me to use force and violence. She may be violent, but when I descend down that path I am no better than her.
Imo it is called self-defending. You are to hurt me so I hurt you too. That is no descending -as long as you stay umm cool I guess-
(03-02-2012 08:09 PM)Kingnothing412 Wrote: [ -> ] (03-02-2012 06:30 PM)pekinoua Wrote: [ -> ] (31-01-2012 04:32 PM)christos21 Wrote: [ -> ]Ignorance is the key to bullying such as this.She will hopefully get bored after a while and will stop annoying you.If this doesn't work report the incident to some more sensible teachers than your teacher.If this doesn't work either you can give her the finger...
This is exactly my opinion. Violence is for sure not a solution and I have to agree with HoT about hitting girls.
First of all, if he punched her, he would probably have problems with the teachers. And of course, no one certainly says that she would stop bullying him. She could even be much more aggresive. As I see it, she must have a problem and the only way she finds to express it is through bullying. As christos21 said, giratina88 should ignore her. If she insists on bullying him, he must talk with another teacher, his principal and/or his parents.
But as I said violence would only give him more trouble. And of course, you can't calmly beat up someone He must restrain his anger and stay calm, and just ignore her. Imo, that's the best way to solve his problem.
Well , Guess what? It does not work (i know about things like this , i've been in this situasion billions of times)
Not if he uses it correctly and at the right time.(and does not overdo it)
Oh yes you can.
Annyway , ignoring her won't help. You could try , but im 70% sure she will just carry on normaly. As i said earlier , telling the teachers would be the best option , keep telling the again and again , tell your parrents about it , and if none of those work , beat her up. And try to stay controlled.
Any arguments supporting your opinion would be welcome,to say at least.Ignorance can work but violence cannot and that happens because if you hit someone he'll hit you back but if you ignore somebody he should ignore you too(unless he wants to seem like an idiot talking alone).
(03-02-2012 10:20 PM)christos21 Wrote: [ -> ] (03-02-2012 08:09 PM)Kingnothing412 Wrote: [ -> ] (03-02-2012 06:30 PM)pekinoua Wrote: [ -> ] (31-01-2012 04:32 PM)christos21 Wrote: [ -> ]Ignorance is the key to bullying such as this.She will hopefully get bored after a while and will stop annoying you.If this doesn't work report the incident to some more sensible teachers than your teacher.If this doesn't work either you can give her the finger...
This is exactly my opinion. Violence is for sure not a solution and I have to agree with HoT about hitting girls.
First of all, if he punched her, he would probably have problems with the teachers. And of course, no one certainly says that she would stop bullying him. She could even be much more aggresive. As I see it, she must have a problem and the only way she finds to express it is through bullying. As christos21 said, giratina88 should ignore her. If she insists on bullying him, he must talk with another teacher, his principal and/or his parents.
But as I said violence would only give him more trouble. And of course, you can't calmly beat up someone He must restrain his anger and stay calm, and just ignore her. Imo, that's the best way to solve his problem.
Well , Guess what? It does not work (i know about things like this , i've been in this situasion billions of times)
Not if he uses it correctly and at the right time.(and does not overdo it)
Oh yes you can.
Annyway , ignoring her won't help. You could try , but im 70% sure she will just carry on normaly. As i said earlier , telling the teachers would be the best option , keep telling the again and again , tell your parrents about it , and if none of those work , beat her up. And try to stay controlled.
Any arguments supporting your opinion would be welcome,to say at least.Ignorance can work but violence cannot and that happens because if you hit someone he'll hit you back but if you ignore somebody he should ignore you too(unless he wants to seem like an idiot talking alone).
Well it really depends on the bully. It's true , in this situation it's only one person so it's more likely to work. Now as for the violence.........just , .................
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Well, I can't understand why violence would be a solution to a problem with a bully like her. First of all, it may seems normal for you to hit a girl, but a many people don't believe this. In the end, it may seems tha SHE is the victim and G88 is the bully! That is totally wrong, based on what G88 said! I agree with you about talking to a teacher, but the first thing he should try is to ignore her. Violence is the last resort, in case everything he tried failed and she continues to bully him. (But first he must be sure that EVERYTHING has failed). Many of you propose him to be (calmly) violent. Well, I will say again that this will bring him more troubles! What if friends of her, want "revenge" and hit him too? KN412, as I recall you said that he must be violent and beat her up, something you didn't do for your reasons. Reasonably, this means that you can't be sure for the consequences of his actions! I don't even want to think what will happen if she somehow overpower him.
Well, I am not sure that being ignorant will help either, but at least it is a safer solution. And as a backup solution he could speak with a teacher and his parents.
PS: lol His problem seems to be something like the problem between Turkey and Cyprus
(03-02-2012 11:46 PM)pekinoua Wrote: [ -> ]Well, I can't understand why violence would be a solution to a problem with a bully like her. First of all, it may seems normal for you to hit a girl, but a many people don't believe this. In the end, it may seems tha SHE is the victim and G88 is the bully! That is totally wrong, based on what G88 said! I agree with you about talking to a teacher, but the first thing he should try is to ignore her. Violence is the last resort, in case everything he tried failed and she continues to bully him. (But first he must be sure that EVERYTHING has failed). Many of you propose him to be (calmly) violent. Well, I will say again that this will bring him more troubles! What if friends of her, want "revenge" and hit him too? KN412, as I recall you said that he must be violent and beat her up, something you didn't do for your reasons. Reasonably, this means that you can't be sure for the consequences of his actions! I don't even want to think what will happen if she somehow overpower him.
Well, I am not sure that being ignorant will help either, but at least it is a safer solution. And as a backup solution he could speak with a teacher and his parents.
PS: lol His problem seems to be something like the problem between Turkey and Cyprus
wtf have i been saying all this time?
Thta's no big deal , he can bring his own friends or just run away.
Actually........i've also said that i've been bullied many times in many different ways by manny different people right? Now i don't really know if you can call this beating up someone but i have done something like that. It was in Junior high , i had just finnished school and was walking down this narrow street with no one around when sudenlly this stupid person who had been bullying me for quite some time pushes me from behind. and i fell. And it had rained earlier. So i got really angry , tell him to go die , he punches me in the face , i punch him back and put him in a headlock and wait until he faints. He never went near me or talked to me again.
Anyway , violence only in some cases is good. Usually just telling the teacher or your parrents should stop it. Even the police if it has nothing to do with school and is serious enough.