School has been going okay for me except for one problem: my study hall class. I'm in a smaller study hall class because the larger ones are horrible, but this one is almost as bad. Why? Because there is a 12th grader in there named Bailey. She's really mean and scary. Every time I say something, even if it has no relation to her, she will scream at me to "shut the f*ck up!" and get others to join her in on it. THEN, in the class, she treats me like I'm her disobedient 6 year old son, and constantly nags me about finishing all my homework in class while SHE looks at porn on the internet. And get this, our teacher DOESN'T EVEN CARE!!! I'm at the breaking point here, and I need to know what to do if she tells me to shut the f*ck up for no reason whatsoever. If there are no teachers around, I could just tell her "go f*ck yourself" and give her the finger. That of course, would cause her to beat me to a pulp. I could just completely and blatantly ignore her, but that might also cause her to get mad. Or I could do as she says and not get beat up possibly. What do you think I should do. Should I stand up for myself, or just listen to her?
I would give her the finger and if she'd dare to touch I would give her my whole punch.
I Know you might be a bit softer than me and hesitate to do this but if it's as bad as you say , if i were you i would just not say anything the next time she pesters me , move closer to her and beat her up to the point where she can hardly breath. (You said the teacher does not care right?) If you think you'll get into trouble just tell the teachers and bring your parrents to school.In the past i have tollerated such behavior from my classmates and i really regret not doing anything.
Btw , you should not care about them making fun of you. i mean , so what? It's if they are annoying you or bullying you that you should do something.
Yeah, beating her up won't work. The teacher doesn't care what BAILEY does, but if I do something wrong she freaks.
(28-01-2012 09:12 PM)Giratina88 Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah, beating her up won't work. The teacher doesn't care what BAILEY does, but if I do something wrong she freaks.
Well then it's out of the question! Bring your parrents and complain to the Princible about the bitch AND the teacher
Must be the fact that American education sucks. You cant do much.
Well, I would just ignore her, but if that doesn't work, try talking to another teacher or the principal.
(28-01-2012 08:31 PM)Phoenix Wrote: [ -> ]I would give her the finger and if she'd dare to touch I would give her my whole punch.
This sounds good, but instead giving her the finger you could always tell her that she's being an annoying shit and then move to the second option in case she get too agressive.
(28-01-2012 08:45 PM)Kingnothing412 Wrote: [ -> ]if i were you i would just not say anything the next time she pesters me , move closer to her and beat her up to the point where she can hardly breath.
That's a bit too much, imo showing how really frustrated her behavior makes you feel and using some violence if necessary will be much more effective. The threat ofviolence is sometimes more efective than the violence itself.
(28-01-2012 09:27 PM)Phoenix Wrote: [ -> ]Must be the fact that American education sucks. You cant do much.
Yeah, while ours is so perfect....
(29-01-2012 01:30 AM)Terraplant Wrote: [ -> ]Well, I would just ignore her, but if that doesn't work, try talking to another teacher or the principal.
That's what I would do and if she continued I would probably start yelling at her and maybe proceed to punching in case she was too aggressive. Problem is that I get easily irritated and I usually have to supress my urge to punch people in the face. But if things are how you described em, I don't see why not. Firstly though you could just ignore her and not let her affect your actions, then maybe try to talk to her and if she is still annoying express your anger. Personally, I consider some people so idotic that I wouldn't even bother with what they think or say about me, unless it directly affects me. She must belong to this category, I believe.
Well, I like the flicking her off idea, but I probably should just tell another teacher I trust. Thanks for all the help you've given me.
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Personally, I would never trust a teacher about this. They consider this another boring task you make them to take care of and usually don't do shit. But it's your choice.
Trust me. My band teacher is good friends with my mom and with me. If anyone could help, it would be him.
(29-01-2012 06:10 AM)Giratina88 Wrote: [ -> ]Trust me. My band teacher is good friends with my mom and with me. If anyone could help, it would be him.
oh yes then that's a good idea. I hope it goes well , GL
(29-01-2012 05:51 AM)Divided by Zer0 Wrote: [ -> ] (28-01-2012 08:31 PM)Phoenix Wrote: [ -> ]I would give her the finger and if she'd dare to touch I would give her my whole punch.
This sounds good, but instead giving her the finger you could always tell her that she's being an annoying shit and then move to the second option in case she get too agressive.
(28-01-2012 08:45 PM)Kingnothing412 Wrote: [ -> ]if i were you i would just not say anything the next time she pesters me , move closer to her and beat her up to the point where she can hardly breath.
That's a bit too much, imo showing how really frustrated her behavior makes you feel and using some violence if necessary will be much more effective. The threat ofviolence is sometimes more efective than the violence itself.
(28-01-2012 09:27 PM)Phoenix Wrote: [ -> ]Must be the fact that American education sucks. You cant do much.
Yeah, while ours is so perfect....
(29-01-2012 01:30 AM)Terraplant Wrote: [ -> ]Well, I would just ignore her, but if that doesn't work, try talking to another teacher or the principal.
That's what I would do and if she continued I would probably start yelling at her and maybe proceed to punching in case she was too aggressive. Problem is that I get easily irritated and I usually have to supress my urge to punch people in the face. But if things are how you described em, I don't see why not. Firstly though you could just ignore her and not let her affect your actions, then maybe try to talk to her and if she is still annoying express your anger. Personally, I consider some people so idotic that I wouldn't even bother with what they think or say about me, unless it directly affects me. She must belong to this category, I believe.
You.....Db0........Have never been bullied.....have you? Well actually it depends in this situation , maybe g88 could intimidate her with a few friends of his from school. Just going up to her and kindly telling her to stop or there'll be consequences would work i think.
Anyway , i think just telling a teacher he can trust is the best thing he can do so lets just leave it there.
(30-01-2012 01:14 PM)Kingnothing412 Wrote: [ -> ]You.....Db0........Have never been bullied.....have you?
No, but I still have an opinion.
This thread screams pathetic, but whatever, I sympathise. I've been through this, too. But, hell, it's not gentlemanly to beat others, especially ladies, is it?
What I would do is to find what's the matter with me. I mean, there must be a reason she behaves this way. No, I don't mean she has a good reason, but there must be something in my actions that cause her to be a b*tch.
Most of the times, being different -I'm not implying anything good or bad- is reason enough for others to become aggresive. It's a way of protecting yourself from something that is unfamiliar to you. Then, accepting difference in a world of racism and hypocricy is like wanting to be neglected. Thus, being "bad" is pretty "in'.
Then, I'd pay attention to my behavior patterns. Being short-tempered CRIES to be mocked. When you're being mocked act calmly and be calm as well. Expressing feelings of uneasiness if like food to "bullies". Maybe just talk with her with a gentle voice. Or maybe, when you do something dump and she laughs out loud (lols), acknowledge your mistake and laugh too. It's not a sign of weakness or something.
That's all folks. Hope I helped in any way.
(30-01-2012 09:43 PM)herooftime Wrote: [ -> ]This thread screams pathetic, but whatever, I sympathise. I've been through this, too. But, hell, it's not gentlemanly to beat others, especially ladies, is it?
What I would do is to find what's the matter with me. I mean, there must be a reason she behaves this way. No, I don't mean she has a good reason, but there must be something in my actions that cause her to be a b*tch.
Most of the times, being different -I'm not implying anything good or bad- is reason enough for others to become aggresive. It's a way of protecting yourself from something that is unfamiliar to you. Then, accepting difference in a world of racism and hypocricy is like wanting to be neglected. Thus, being "bad" is pretty "in'.
Then, I'd pay attention to my behavior patterns. Being short-tempered CRIES to be mocked. When you're being mocked act calmly and be calm as well. Expressing feelings of uneasiness if like food to "bullies". Maybe just talk with her with a gentle voice. Or maybe, when you do something dump and she laughs out loud (lols), acknowledge your mistake and laugh too. It's not a sign of weakness or something.
That's all folks. Hope I helped in any way.
Oh yes +1 to this , i forgot to mention , if you're going to beat her up you'd better be calm and you'd better know what you are doing. Don't even let her harm you in any way. Also about this "you don't hit girls" thing , just.......no. i do not agree. call me uncivilised or whatever you want. There is no way i'm accepting that though. A bully is a bully. whatever the gender , treat them the same way. Ok let me put it this way , why not? Give me a reason. A good one.