lol , i know about the butterflies expression, i was joking ofc.
(08-07-2013 05:47 AM)grassdragon Wrote: [ -> ]While I'm at it, I'd better explain something else to y'all. You may have seen me use the word: "y'all." Y'all is a contraction of "You all." Only Americans in the Southeastern part of the country use it. Y'all is plural for you. It refers to two or more people. It is NEVER used to refer to one person except in BAD imitations by people of other parts of America.
Whenever i see that phrase , i always think of this.
![[Image: texas.png]](http://krautchan.net/images/balls/texas.png)
lol.
Anyway , to answer your question , no such thing as a "way to overcome it". It's purelly do to with will. This wills seem a lot like
pic related , but i'm being dead serious here , i'm not underestimating your problem i know what it's like.
just. stop. caring.
Do what you want. Think a bit actually , what
do you want? Understand what you want first of all. give it a second thought. That's basically it. Question everything , and chose solutions that will work out closer for what
you want.
You might say , "but what about the others? i want to do my own thing but the others don't." Well , since you care that they don't want you doing something , what other option do you have from just talking to them right? See their answer from their perspective , are they being reasonable? explain to them why they aren't. Repeat until you come to an agreement/realize they're being completely illogical. Basically just understand what you really want in the first place. It's not magic. (i mean , you could pray , but...) if you're not doing it you obviously don't want to do it , obviously because of a different problem. find that and try to fix it first.
eh , what a load of rot , i guess i have no idea really , lol.
(08-07-2013 05:47 AM)grassdragon Wrote: [ -> ]I would have to know what the child did. Only then would I make my judgments.
wise. That's good of you. still though , for a parent to disown it's child... i can't really come up with any excuse for it.
(08-07-2013 05:47 AM)grassdragon Wrote: [ -> ]What my sister did, well, she basically turned her back on EVERYTHING she ever knew.
Try to think why. what exactly did she turn her back on? examples? Maybe she found out it's wrong/doesn't work/other things work just as fine as well. you never know. don't be too quick to judge , analyze everything.
lol , i'm one to talk
(08-07-2013 05:47 AM)grassdragon Wrote: [ -> ]Also, she beat me up (throwing punches at me) over music she was throwing away. Take in mind I was 14 and she was 24 at the time.
that's a mess. basically unjustifiable. unless she hated you for other reasons , which i can't know of. I don't know. i wasn't there , i can't judge. but that's still messed up. She may have been upset about something else though , you know what it's like when you're worried/frustrated/really upset about something and you lash out at completely unrelated things/people. That horrible , unsettling feeling of anxiety , fear , denial and unease, you know what i'm talking about , right? who knows what it could have been. She was 24 fhs , you don't lash out at 14 yearolds over something that small (or anything , for that matter.). It's 10 years difference.
wow , did i write all that?
Do you even
want to to do what you think you want to do?
